“Why we date married men” – Nigerian ladies

Despite having an understanding of the risks involved in dating married men, a recent finding has shown that many young Nigerian ladies still think it is far better than giving themselves to single men especially when the latter are not yet ready for marriage.

A study by P.M.NEWS revealed that most Nigerian ladies have, at one point or another, dated married men. Some have continued to even maintain double relationships where they date a married man and keep their relationships with younger male -bachelors.

7 signs you are wasting your time in a relationship

Here are signs that you are in a bad relationship.

 

You are not happy
This is the number one sign that you are in a very unhealthy relationship. When asked, most couples say the best thing about being in a relationship is the happiness being with the one they love brings.

 

7 signs you are wasting your time in a relationship

If you are not happy with your partner or he or she seems not to be happy with you, your relationship isn’t healthy for one party and until things change, there will be one unwilling and unhappy partner in that relationship.

10 Reasons To Drop Everything And Get Married As Soon As Possible (MUST SEE)

Marriage is, for many people, their most important relationship, the source of much happiness and pleasure!
There are advantages and disadvantages of being married. Apart from the much talked-about weight gain and arguments, there are positive aspects. If the union is happy, what the couple may experience is financial benefits, support, good health and many more.
See the full list of reasons why you should drop everything and get married as soon as possible:

1. Longer Life
It has been estimated that the number of people who die is twice as high among unmarried couples. Married people take better care of each other, support their partners and provide help if needed. People who feel responsible for their spouse and kids feel the need to take care of themselves. They understand that there is someone who needs them. Advice: If you want to live longer, get married. Do not make a mistake though by marrying someone who is not your true soul mate!

24 Things Women Don’t Know About Their Vag 1na (Must Read)

After reading this, don’t forget to drop a ‘Thank You’ comment. Here are 24 solid things all women should know about vagina;

After reading this, don’t forget to drop a ‘Thank You’ comment. Here are 24 solid things all women should know about vagina;
1. Ejaculation
One of the controversial facts about vaginas is female ejaculation. Yes, females ejaculate. And again, it doesn’t make you abnormal if you don’t or haven’t yet. There are two explanations of female ejaculation. If your ejaculation is a small amount and of a milky consistency, it is likely a discharge from the paraurethral glands in response to orgasm. If it is a decent amount it is more likely to be urine caused by contractions of the bladder. In many cases it is a combination of both.

10 Ways Men Say ”I Love You” Without Actually Saying It (Must Read)

It is not always easy for men to express their feelings through the simple phrase “I love you”. If he is not vocal about his emotions, it does not mean he is indifferent, maybe your man has a deep fear of rejection, commitment or maybe he had never told it to anyone before.

Yourtango.com opens the veil of how you can recognize the desired “I love you” phrase indirectly.
1. Long-lasting and passionate kisses
Every time he approaches your lips, you can feel the passion with which he gives you a never-ending kiss. More than that, he initiates these moments. It is clear then: he’s more than just a little excited to be around you.

Ladies! 10 Ways Your Man Can Tell You He Loves You Without Actually Saying It [Look]

These are simple tips to make you know how you can recognize the desired “I love you” phrase indirectly.

1. Long-lasting and passionate kisses:
Every time he approaches your lips, you can feel the passion with which he gives you a never-ending kiss. More than that, he initiates these moments. It is clear then: he’s more than just a little excited to be around you.
2. His friends love you:
They make attempts to get to know you better and they generally enjoy your company. Maybe it is because they know how happy their guy is with you. So they start seeing you as awesome person, the same way your man does.
3. He listens closely:
Well, he does not say much about relationship between you two and how he feels about it. But the way he looks at you when you talk is significant. He may nod or lean in closer when you’re discussing important topics. Thus he shows he really cares about what you are saying and expresses his respect and appreciation.
4. Upright posture:

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SINGLE LADIES – 9 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU FINALLY MEET THE ONE

While being single may not necessarily be a choice, spending your time wisely as an uncommitted 20+ years old lady is. Instead of plotting how to land a man or being envious of your friends who already have, take this time to explore some valuable lessons that every girl in her 20s should know so you’ll be ready when he finally arrives.

Number One:

Being Happy
in Your Own Company Being alone can be hard, but it’s important to not be dependent on the company of others to be happy. No one likes a clinger, and your future boyfriend will respect the fact that you have other interests besides him and are capable of having a good time all on your own. Read a good book, watch a new movie, pick up a hobby or go jogging. There are plenty of things you can do all by yourself to stay entertained.
Number Two:

Ladies! See Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy (Introvert) Guy And Where To Get One [Must Read]

I have so many reasons why you should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of us will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you’ll be glad you did.


1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You’ll love them.
2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you’ll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a “thank you”. That’s even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You’ll love ‘em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with bosoms and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You’ll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They’ll always stick to you.
4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.
5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listeners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.
6. They don’t party, drink nor smoke.
I’m begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don’t engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They’ll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they’ve tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they’ve had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That’s crazy isn’t it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don’t need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.
7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you’ll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.

Where To Find A Shy Guy:
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.
2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you’ll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You’ll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don’t mind them for not partaking in activites. They don’t want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You’ll love them.

5 things ladies find unattractive in men…. #4 is a must see!!

Yh!! smart guys should read all these and work on themselves thoroughly!! Thank us later..
1: Boasting
Some guys big themselves up so much that it would appear they’re trying to prove to themselves that they’re a good catch. We’ve heard about how amazing your job is, how much money you’re earning, how hot your exes were, how everyone loves you. Now time to talk about ourselves… nope, because you haven’t finished bigging up your car and your house and your hilarious personality (erm, really?).

Do you think that all this bragging will make us overlook the fact that you’re so boring? Being egotistical won’t make the ladies stick around so employ a bit of modesty and try asking questions about us rather than blabbing about yourself all the time.

10 things you probably didn’t know about s£x (A Must Read)

Regardless of your stance on Valentine’s Day, there’s no way to avoid being bombarded with romantic imagery. So you might as well take this as an opportunity to learn something new. With that in mind, here are ten things you probably didn’t know about sex, love and lust.

Illustration from Saga, by Fiona Staples.

Who knows? Maybe you can use one of these to impress your valentine — in fact, some of these could probably even be crafted into clever pickup lines.

 

10. You can break a penis

There are no bones in the penis, but it can, in fact, become “broken.” Doctors refer to the injury as a “penile fracture,” and it’s every bit as harrowing as you’d imagine. (All right, so if you’re going with the whole pickup line angle, you might not want to start with this one.)

Last month, we filled you in on a few things you may not have known about the science of love and..

“[Penile fracture] is a severe form of bending injury to the erect penis that occurs when a membrane called the tunica albuginea tears,” explains Hunter Wessells — chair of the urology department at the University of Washington School of Medicine. He continues:

The tunica albuginea surrounds the corpora cavernosa, specialized spongy tissue in the core of the penis that fills up with blood during an erection. When the tunica albuginea tears, the blood that is normally confined to this space leaks out into other tissues. You get bruising and swelling.

So how does a penis actually, you know, break? According to Wessels, any form of vigorous intercourse when the penis is rammed into a solid structure… “during sexual acrobatics,” for instance.

“We had this patient who suffered penile fracture after running across the room and trying to penetrate his wife with a flying leap,” he says.

9. Ovulating strippers make more money (according to one poorly conceived study)

In 2007, researchers at the University of New Mexico recorded a surprising correlation between strippers’ ovulatory cycles and their tip earnings. Strippers who were ovulating (and thus most likely to conceive) averaged $70 per hour in tips. Those who were menstruating, and those who were neither menstruating nor ovulating, pulled in $35 and $50, respectively. One hypothesis for this strange observation is that men are, subconsciously, more inclined to tip a woman who they believe they have a better chance of producing a child with.

But take all of this with a grain of salt. The investigation monitored a mere 18 dancers from one club for a total of two cycles, making it more than a little limited in scope and its sample size borderline ridiculous. Needless to say, few were surprised when Geoffrey Miller, the researcher who conducted this study, was reprimanded by his university last year for lying about his research in other areas.

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8. Women can smell genetic incompatibility

The genes that comprise your major histocompatibility complex (MHC) play an important role in regulating your body’s immune response — most notably in determining compatibility of donors for organ transplant. Some data have shown that the more dissimilar a man and woman’s MHC are, the more likely they are to bring a child to term — but even more interesting is that women are thought to be capable of actually smelling this genetic differences.

In a study led by Claus Wedekind at the University of Bern in Switzerland, women were asked to smell T-shirts that had been worn by anonymous men for two nights and choose ones which appealed to them. According to the researchers, the women consistently preferred the odors of shirts worn by men with dissimilar MHCs.

How the whole smelling thing works remains very much a mystery. Research has shown that mice detect compatibility genes by smell, as do some species of fish. But in an interview withThe Guardian, researcher Daniel M. Davis, author of The Compatibility Gene, admits that, at least for humans, “how [MHC detection] works on the olfactory level is basically not understood at all.”

 

7. Birth control could mess with a woman’s ability to assess a mate

In the study conducted by Wedekind and his colleagues, the womens’ preference for men of dissimilar MHCs was actually reversed when the women rating the odors were taking oral contraceptives.

6. Fat men last longer in bed

The relationship between obesity and sexual health is sort of a mixed bag. On one hand, obesity is associated with erectile dysfunction; on the other, studies like this one — published in 2010 in the International Journal of Impotence Research: The Journal of Sexual Medicine — suggest that the fatter a man is, the less likely he is to suffer from premature ejaculation. In fact, men with a higher body mass index (BMI), were able to make love for an average of 7.3 minutes, while slimmer test subjects averaged 1.8 minutes.

So what’s the secret behind those extra five and a half minutes? Men with excess fat also pack higher levels of the female sex hormone estradiol. One hypothesis is that this substance interferes with the the body’s ability to achieve orgasm… at least for a few minutes.

5. The seven year itch may not be a myth

Originally made famous in the 1955 film by the same name, the phrase “seven-year-itch” is used to describe the tendency for someone to become unsatisfied with their partner or marriage after a period of seven years, at which point they may feel an urge to move on.

If you’re measuring by way of divorce, the myth of the seven year itch may not be a myth after all; according to the 2009 U.S. Census Bureau, the median duration of first marriages that end in divorce is 7.9 years.

4. We will actively avoid temptation

Even if the seven year itch is real, evidence also suggests that men and women will actually avert their attention from tempting alternatives to their partners — even if this aversion is subconscious.

In a study published in 2008, psychologist Jon K. Maner showed male and female test subjects pictures of faces on a computer screen for half a second, followed immediately by a circle or square on some other region of the computer screen, which they were asked to identify by pressing a corresponding keyboard key as quickly and accurately as possible.

The results show that the gazes of single, heterosexual men and women were liable to linger on photographs of attractive members of the opposite sex, in what the researchers refer to as a high level of “attentional adhesion.” But the test subjects who were already in relationships reacted differently, and actually looked away from attractive faces more quickly; in fact, some test participants in relationships turned their attention away from “attractive” members of the opposite sex more quickly than they did from “average” looking faces.

3. Masturbation starts in utero

 

Those of you flying solo on Valentines day should know that masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of — in fact, there’s a chance you’ve been practicing it since you were in the womb. What you see here is a sonographic image from a paper titled “Sonographic observation of in utero fetal ‘masturbation.’” In the image on the left, the baby’s hand can be seen hovering above the penis. In the image on the right, the yellow arrow shows the hand engaged in what researcher Israel Meizner describes as “the hand grasping the penis in a fashion resembling masturbation movement.”

“Bear in mind,” explains Mary Roach — author of Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex — at her TED talk on things you didn’t know about orgasms, “this was an ultrasound, so [Meizner would have observed] moving images.”

Then again, who knows? Maybe there’s nothing sexual about this image at all, and it’s actuallyan example of the palmar grasp reflex in the womb. [Figure by Meizner et al. via TED]

 

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2. There’s more to the clitoris than you probably realize

If you picture a clitoris in your mind, there’s a good chance that what you’re imagining is actually the tip of a bigger, internal clitoral iceberg — a sexual organ that is much larger than the sensitive bundle of nerve endings on the outside of the body (the tiny part of this diagram which is labeled as “Glans”) would lead you to believe.

We covered the enigmatic clitoris in greater detail here but the upshot is that prior to the late 90s, researchers had never studied the internal structure of an excited clitoris. In fact, it wasn’t until 2009 that scientists produced the first 3D sonography of a stimulated clitoris. The sexual organ is depicted here in its excited state in an illustration by the Museum of Sex Blog’s Ms. M, which she drew for this fascinating post on the internal clitoris. Do yourself a favor and go educate yourself.

 

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Ladies! Checkout 10 Obvious Signs To Know If A guy Is Flirting With You [Must Read]

Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.

1. Lovely smile:

A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.

Beware Ladies! Here Are 3 Simple Signs To Know He’s Lying About Who He Is – #2 Is A Must See!

Online dating is more than just chatting to someone online. You have to be aware that people online do lie. Not all online daters are liars, but you need to be cautious. You cannot forgo doing a little investigating about the person you’re talking to and hope to meet. This article outlines 3 signs that the man you’re talking to online might be lying about who he is.

1. He only has one or two photos to share:

It’s important to not only see photos of the man you’re talking to online, but to also do a web cam chat. Photo theft online is so common these days that you need to make sure you’re talking to who you really think you are. If he can send you a picture of himself right away holding a paper with your (or his) name on it, you can be sure it’s really him. If he makes excuses as to why he cannot send you a picture or web cam chat, you’re probably dealing with someone who is lying about what they look like. Don’t be afraid to ask for proof of who you’re talking to. If he acts offended and makes you feel bad for asking, he’s probably being dishonest.

Top 10 Most Romantic Words To Say To Her……

No matter what age, girls love to feel special. Your words can make her smile, blush and feel like the most important girl on the planet. Just watch that twinkle in her eyes and the happiness on her face when you say emotional sweet things to her.

We have found some romantic phrases to tell her but we decided to highlight just 10. Pick your favourite and combine or personalize them for that special girlfriend

1) This phrase would be perfect in the morning, just sent as a text message, “I sent an angel to look over you at night. The angel came back just a minute later and I asked it why. It told me, “Angels don’t watch other angels.”
2) “If you held up 7 roses into a mirror, you’d be looking at 8 of the most beautiful things in the world.”
3) This line is great for every moment: “I was gonna tell you something, but I forgot what it was when I started looking at you.”
4) An absolutely amazing line for a text message, “Had an x-ray today, guess what they found? You. Safely tucked away in my heart. They said my heart is fine with a girl like you in it.” And add often, “You are the only one for me.”
5) This phrase will make her feel special, we guarantee it. “Before I met you I never knew what it was like to smile for no reason.”
6) “No one can take you from me, because no matter what, you will be always in my heart.”
7) Holding her hands, look into her eyes and say: “I hope this moment will last forever. Holding you just feels so right.”
8) The sweetest words ever: “Do you know why God created spaces between our fingers? It is for someone else’s fingers to fit into them.”
9) She’ll definitely blush at this: “I know why thousands of girls cry at night. Because they wish they could be as stunning as you are.”
10) “You are my personal bomb. If I don’t see you for several hours, my heart is about to explode.”
Do you have more romantic words to share with us? Drop it in the comments section

How to make your girlfriend miss you so bad!! (Must See)

1.You still have your own life…..You two are together and yet you still have a lot of time on your hands, when you are apart. Fill this void with things to do, a girlfriend is more proud of a boyfriend who knows how to spend quality time with her and yet still manages to do well on his own. Make your girlfriend miss you more, by keeping yourself busy and giving her the time of her life when you are two are together.


2.Let her know you care….
You just spent a moonlit walk on the beach or a glorious dinner together. Call her to ask if she enjoyed herself and got home safely, but do not go into the details of the time you just spent together. Leave it at that, she enjoyed herself and just let her have the pleasure of taking in all the romantic things that you have done for her.  That is enough to make your girlfriend miss you and think of you.
3.Show her that you think of her as much she does….
A simple text message or an email will suffice, but don’t do it everyday. Surprise her by doing it on occasions that she least expects it. Women always want romantic gestures.
4.Limit your phone calls….
As much as you want to call her, control yourself. Girls have their own “me” time, give them ample time and space. They will appreciate this very much.
5.Sometimes it is okay to turn her down….
She will not be offended if you don’t accompany her at certain occasions. But be mindful of how she invites, because there are invitations from a girl that only mean they wish to inform you that they are going somewhere and you may go with them, but it is best not to. There are also invitations that mean, you have to accompany your girlfriend because it will mean so much to her. She also has a social life outside of her own; make your girlfriend miss you by declining some of those invitations. Make her realize that there are indeed occasions that are better in your company.
Keep in mind that in love or any relationship, giving each other the right amount of time and space is very important. To make your girlfriend miss you more is a challenge and is part of keeping your relationship fresh and nurturing. So congratulations for being her prince, keep the romance alive.

Check out 8 Deep Penetrat1on Pos1tions To Get Her Moa’n1ng

$ex is much more pleasant when penetration is deep enough to hit the right spots at the right time and the following deep-penetration positions are guaranteed to give you maximum pleasure and make her beg for more.if you can successfully execute between 3-5 of them, then you deserve the title of $ex-maestro royale..See them below..

1. The Missionary: The most common $ex position worldwide. To really go deeper, you can put a thick pillow under your woman’s butt to raise her a little, giving you a more direct path to her cervix…
2. Frog Jump: This is a variation of doggy style that allows for deep penetration and a short-cut to the cervix.
3. Mr. Bodyguard: This standing $ex position allows for a deep penetration if angled right.
4. Launch Pad: It is an interesting modification of the Missionary sex position with the woman’s legs on the man’s chest while her knees rest on her chest. The plus of this one is deep penetration and eye contact.
5. Brute Ride: In this style, the man must have a large size penis. It is a guaranteed the G-spot hitter, especially if the woman can spread her legs a little more than usual.
6. The Big Dipper: To try this, you must be fit enough to do dips and hold yourself up. It is a rewarding position.
7. Couch Connection: This allows really nice penetration but the woman must be able to hold herself up with her arms behind her.
8. Deep Impact: Here you get nice face to face connection, and wonderful penetration but requires the woman to be flexible and the man to be able to hold her up. Do it right and get her yelling.
   Give it a shot to get spice up your sex-perience

Check out 8 Deep Penetrat1on Pos1tions To Get Her Moa’n1ng

$ex is much more pleasant when penetration is deep enough to hit the right spots at the right time and the following deep-penetration positions are guaranteed to give you maximum pleasure and make her beg for more.if you can successfully execute between 3-5 of them, then you deserve the title of $ex-maestro royale..See them below..

1. The Missionary: The most common $ex position worldwide. To really go deeper, you can put a thick pillow under your woman’s butt to raise her a little, giving you a more direct path to her cervix…
2. Frog Jump: This is a variation of doggy style that allows for deep penetration and a short-cut to the cervix.
3. Mr. Bodyguard: This standing $ex position allows for a deep penetration if angled right.
4. Launch Pad: It is an interesting modification of the Missionary sex position with the woman’s legs on the man’s chest while her knees rest on her chest. The plus of this one is deep penetration and eye contact.
5. Brute Ride: In this style, the man must have a large size penis. It is a guaranteed the G-spot hitter, especially if the woman can spread her legs a little more than usual.
6. The Big Dipper: To try this, you must be fit enough to do dips and hold yourself up. It is a rewarding position.
7. Couch Connection: This allows really nice penetration but the woman must be able to hold herself up with her arms behind her.
8. Deep Impact: Here you get nice face to face connection, and wonderful penetration but requires the woman to be flexible and the man to be able to hold her up. Do it right and get her yelling.
   Give it a shot to get spice up your sex-perience

Check out 8 Deep Penetrat1on Pos1tions To Get Her Moa’n1ng

$ex is much more pleasant when penetration is deep enough to hit the right spots at the right time and the following deep-penetration positions are guaranteed to give you maximum pleasure and make her beg for more.if you can successfully execute between 3-5 of them, then you deserve the title of $ex-maestro royale..See them below..

1. The Missionary: The most common $ex position worldwide. To really go deeper, you can put a thick pillow under your woman’s butt to raise her a little, giving you a more direct path to her cervix…
2. Frog Jump: This is a variation of doggy style that allows for deep penetration and a short-cut to the cervix.
3. Mr. Bodyguard: This standing $ex position allows for a deep penetration if angled right.
4. Launch Pad: It is an interesting modification of the Missionary sex position with the woman’s legs on the man’s chest while her knees rest on her chest. The plus of this one is deep penetration and eye contact.
5. Brute Ride: In this style, the man must have a large size penis. It is a guaranteed the G-spot hitter, especially if the woman can spread her legs a little more than usual.
6. The Big Dipper: To try this, you must be fit enough to do dips and hold yourself up. It is a rewarding position.
7. Couch Connection: This allows really nice penetration but the woman must be able to hold herself up with her arms behind her.
8. Deep Impact: Here you get nice face to face connection, and wonderful penetration but requires the woman to be flexible and the man to be able to hold her up. Do it right and get her yelling.
   Give it a shot to get spice up your sex-perience

Check out 8 Deep Penetrat1on Pos1tions To Get Her Moa’n1ng

$ex is much more pleasant when penetration is deep enough to hit the right spots at the right time and the following deep-penetration positions are guaranteed to give you maximum pleasure and make her beg for more.if you can successfully execute between 3-5 of them, then you deserve the title of $ex-maestro royale..See them below..

1. The Missionary: The most common $ex position worldwide. To really go deeper, you can put a thick pillow under your woman’s butt to raise her a little, giving you a more direct path to her cervix…
2. Frog Jump: This is a variation of doggy style that allows for deep penetration and a short-cut to the cervix.
3. Mr. Bodyguard: This standing $ex position allows for a deep penetration if angled right.
4. Launch Pad: It is an interesting modification of the Missionary sex position with the woman’s legs on the man’s chest while her knees rest on her chest. The plus of this one is deep penetration and eye contact.
5. Brute Ride: In this style, the man must have a large size penis. It is a guaranteed the G-spot hitter, especially if the woman can spread her legs a little more than usual.
6. The Big Dipper: To try this, you must be fit enough to do dips and hold yourself up. It is a rewarding position.
7. Couch Connection: This allows really nice penetration but the woman must be able to hold herself up with her arms behind her.
8. Deep Impact: Here you get nice face to face connection, and wonderful penetration but requires the woman to be flexible and the man to be able to hold her up. Do it right and get her yelling.
   Give it a shot to get spice up your sex-perience

8 Tips To Plan The Perfect Marriage Proposal – You need to see this!

Most men have a general idea of how to propose: buy a lovely ring, get down on one knee and pop the question. But e don pass like that. With trending over-the-top weddings and high expectations, those three steps aren’t always enough to knock her off her feet.

Remember that, while the wedding day is all about the bride, the proposal is the groom’s time to shine. There are tricks and tips to ensure you have the perfect wedding proposal and i hope this helps.


1. Keep things to yourself: This is the first and most basic tip. The simple truth is, the more people you talk to about the upcoming proposal, the more likely it is that there’ll be a Judas among them. Some might unintentionally let it slip and your whole idea is botched. Only entrust your surprise to friends who can keep a secret.
2. Find out what kind of engagement rings she likes: I know how tough this is. It took a friend more than a month to finally decide on the kind of ring to get his fiancée. It’s probably one of the hardest steps, but one way you can get around this is to try to pick up hints from her about her taste and what she fancies in engagement rings. Remember to do this discreetly without letting the cat out of the bag. Check out the kind of jewelry she wears, or pay attention when she talks about someone else’s engagement ring. If she has a best friend or sister, you could consult her to help you find an appropriate engagement ring.
3. Surprise her by having family and/or friends share in this moment: They could either be right there with you or if you’ll want an exclusive romantic proposal, you secretly arrange to have your friends hidden far away from both of you, but nearby enough. Make sure you all agree on a sign for them to appear. Immediately after popping the question and she says “Yes,”, make the sign and let them come in for the Uhhhs and Ahhhs and of course the congratulations. This way, you get your treasured intimate moment alone and also have your favourite people share in your happiness afterwards. So it’s a win-win.
4. Hire a professional photographer: This is one major mistake grooms make and i don’t want to catch any 411vibes reader falling victim. They get so engrossed with the planning that they forget this precious never-to-be-repeated moment needs to be captured perfectly. Don’t ever ever forget to document your proposal — smartphones, flipcams, whatever it takes. To save cost, borrow a friend’s good quality camera and have an expert photographer among the attendees capture the moments. Ensure the photographer knows how to capture the light, how to make your setting look more magical, and how to get the perfect priceless shot of that look on her face when she realizes it’s a proposal. Your proposal moments are way too important to risk losing via dead camera batteries. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did and so will she.
5. Don’t forget good ol’ music: I guess almost every man knows this already. What’s a wedding proposal without a song? I don’t mean the Donjazzy and Phyno kind of songs. Hell, no. Plan to have a romantic song that is meaningful to both of you. You can stylishly ask her and then plan to have the sweet tune playing in the background. It adds more romance to your proposal. And yes, it doesn’t matter where you plan the proposal, draw her close and engage her in a slow dance after the proposal. Its sure to last forever in her memory.

6. Get her some flowers: Flowers are not as expensive as they used to be. You can easily get a single rose for N1000 at your local supermall. But if you’re big on budget, give her a surprise proposal bouquet.
7. Propose earlier in the evening: Instead of proposing at the end of the night, start off very early in the evening or late afternoon so you both can enjoy an evening filled with events that you’ve planned. Another plus is, she gets an entire night of showing off that engagement ring rather than having to wait till the next day.
8. Speak from the heart: The words you say is what makes your proposal special and unique. Don’t read word for word from a written speech or she might be wondering if you only googled the words. Tell her what you love about her, tell her what your friends say about her and what you want to share with her in your future together. Don’t lose that connection of looking into her eyes. Speak slowly, and if you shed some tears, that just makes it all even more unforgettable. But be sure the tears do not make you choke on your words.
Remember to give your testimony in the comment section below if this is helpful. Happy Proposing! Lol

Checkout 50 Crazy S£x Facts Every Modern Woman Need To [Must Read]

Education doesn’t just stop after you’re finished going to school. The modern day woman needs to stay up to date with the latest information about sex and everything having to do with sex to make sure she stays safe — and in the know.

1

We automatically perceive people who smell good as more attractive.

2

Ginger stimulates the feelings of excitement associated with sex. Eating ginger elevates your heart rate, gets your blood flowing and gets you excited for the night ahead.

3

A study found that men feel more emotional pain after a breakup than women do.

4

It’s official: This study shows that men and women cannot just be friends.

5

Sperm can be considered an anti-aging treatment, as it has a tightening effect on the skin.

6

Sleep deprived men are more likely to believe that women want to have sex with them. This is not a joke.

7

People who are into kinkier sex may be psychologically healthier.

8

Endorphins released during sexual activity create a euphoria similar to opioid drug use.

9

Some people experience the same feeling of arousal when thinking about food as when having sex. (I might be one of them.)

10

After ovulation, a female’s egg is fertile for 24 to 48 hours and a man’s sperm can live 48 hours in the female body. Do the math and be careful. There have been documented cases of live sperm discovered eight days after sex.

11

Twelve percent of adults have had sex at work.

12

You can’t say happiness without saying penis. (You’re welcome.)

13

Around 30 percent of women have trouble reaching orgasm.

14

The Kama Sutra lists 30 types of kisses. Askew, when two heads are tilted in opposite directions.Kiss to ignite, kiss at the corners of the mouth that occurs in the middle of the night to kindle love.Bite classic, when taken between the teeth with a lot of skin. How many have you tried?

15

A study found that good sex triggers the region of the brain associated with falling in love.

16

According to a study, people who have sex once or twice a week have their immune systems boosted slightly.

17

Still have that condom from a while back? Toss it! The average shelf life of a latex condom is about two years.

18

It’s a good idea to keep your own condoms since you don’t know how long your partner’s been holding on to his. Condoms kept in wallets for over a month are more likely to break.

19

Think twice before swallowing if you’re on a diet. There are five calories in a teaspoon of semen.

20

A man can reduce his chances of getting prostate cancer by having at least four orgasms a week. Take care of your man.

21

There are some foods that boost your sex drive, one of them being black raspberries. This phytochemical-rich food enhances both libido and endurance. Oysters are high in zinc, which is vital for testosterone production and healthy sperm. Watermelon contains citrulline amino acid, good for the cardiovascular system and helps relax the blood vessels that increase your sex drive.

22

The average vagina is three to four inches long but can expand by 200 percent when sexually aroused.

23

Sex is 10 times more effective than Valium.

24

Shaving your pubic area increases your chances of spreading an STI.

25

Yeah, they’re called STIs (sexually transmitted infections) now instead of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).

26

A woman’s butt sticks out 25 percent more when she is wearing heels. No wonder Jimmy Choo is adored worldwide.

27

In a newer study, one in nine young ladies has used the morning-after pill after sex. Keep your babies educated.

28

Stay on top of your visits to the gynecologist. Many of the worst STIs you can contract have absolutely no symptoms at all for up to three to five years.

29

Keep it PG and still feel good. The nerve endings in the clitoris extend out to where the pubic hair grows, which is why grinding (dry humping) feels so good.

30

Your pain threshold can increase significantly during arousal.

31

The amygdala, the part of your brain triggering fear and anxiety, shuts down when women have an orgasm.

32

Having an orgasm releases an anti-diuretic hormone, which is why you probably find yourself not being able to pee right after sex.

33

You should pee as soon as possible after sex to prevent UTIs (urinary tract infections).

34

A blowjob is the number one sexual act desired by straight men.

35

The average cost of a bra and panty set is $75. If you’re on a budget, skip the seduction and go straight to the naked.

36

Every year, 11,000 Americans injure themselves when trying out bizarre sexual positions. Don’t become a case study.

37

The largest natural penis recorded was 11 inches.

38

Eighty percent of women use vibrators to achieve an orgasm by clitoral stimulation rather than inserting it vaginally.

39

Only 1 percent of women can achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone. If you are one of them, kindly contact me directly. I have some questions.

40

Know your limit! The average sexual experience lasts 37 minutes.

41

Forty percent of women have experienced exercise-induced orgasms on more than 11 different occasions.

42

Older women are more likely to say they’d orgasmed during their last sexual encounter than younger women.

43

According to a survey of adults aged 20 to 59, women have an average of four sex partners during their lifetimes and men have an average of seven.

44

Some sexual dysfunction can stem from how a woman feels about the appearance of her genitals. Love your body. All of it.

45

Festival-goers would rather spend time doing drugs, drinking and having sex than watching the concert they paid big money to see.

46

Women with higher testosterone levels might be more interested in masturbation than having sex with someone else.

47

New moms are ready to have sex sooner than the six-week wait period instructed by their doctor.

48

Nipples are erogenous zones because the sensation of hardened nipples travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the vagina, cervix and the clitoris.

49

At least 50 percent of sexually active people will have HPV at some point in their lives. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, in 90 percent of cases, the body’s immune system will fight off the disease within two years.

50

About 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex and only 29 percent of women do. Actually, most women aren’t able to climax through straight vaginal intercourse and need some clitoral stimulation to help them achieve orgasm.

Ladies! “Panic No More” Besides Pregnancy – Here Are 7 Reasons Your Period Might Be Late [Must Read]

For the last week or so, I’ve been somewhat convinced that I’m pregnant. For the most part, this belief was paranoid, but also not entirely outside the realm of possibility.



I had a proper French affair when I was in Paris a few weeks ago and at one point there was a broken condom situation, though we realized it was broken and replaced it with a fresh one prior to, ahem, any fluids reaching their apex, so to speak. But I know how babies are made and I’m a total hypochondriac, so when my period failed to arrive on the day it was supposed to, and the day after, and the day after that, and I started feeling gassier than usual, well, I began to panic. I started to type “gas sign of” into Google and the search engine, seemingly reading my mind, autofilled the rest with “early pregnancy.”
Oh god, I thought. It was all but confirmed.
“Everyone, I think I might be carrying the French waiter’s baby,” I announced dramatically to my coworkers.
“I really doubt that,” said Ami, “But why don’t you take a pregnancy test to be sure.”
As practical as that idea sounded, I wasn’t quite ready for confirmation of the status of my uterus just yet — mostly because I didn’t quite know how I felt about possibly being pregnant — so I decided to research all the possible reasons for why my normally prompt period might be late and I (and you, if you’re in a similar situation) shouldn’t be panicking. Here are the seven most likely reasons your period might be late besides pregnancy … and if you make it to the end, you’ll find out whether or not my panicking was all for naught.
1. A Change In Your Regular Routine: Did you start a new job? Change your wakeup time? Go on vacation? It can take your body a little time to adjust to a change in your regular routine and that can impact your regular cycle, especially if the change started at the time you would normally ovulate, causing a delay or even a skipped cycle.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Moderate. I mean, I did just spend a week doing nothing but eating cheese and drinking wine in France. Usually my routine consists of working and then eating cheese and drinking wine, so…
2. Stress: Your emotions, particularly stress, can have a major impact on the regularity of your menstrual cycle. And if you’re stressing about why your period is late, that could actually delay its arrival even more. Mother Nature is a cruel mistress!
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: High. Looking back over the last few months, I’ve been stressed a lot — about my dad’s death and dealing with his estate, about work, etcetera — and I might just be seeing the effects of that on my cycle now.
3. Illness: Being sick at the time you normally would ovulate can delay ovulation — and if you ovulate late, you’ll get your period late. So if your period hasn’t arrived on schedule, think back a few weeks — were you under the weather?
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. I haven’t been sick recently, unless you count being hungover.
4. Pill Poppin’: Taking a new medication or changing the dosage on an existing medication can affect all aspects of your body’s well-being, including your menstrual cycle — that’s why your doctor, including your gynecologist, always wants to know each and every medication that you’re on.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. I’m on a couple of medications, but have been for while and haven’t changed my dosages at all.
5. Weight Issues: A major change in your weight — either by gaining a lot or losing a lot of weight — can throw your ovulation cycle off. People who are underweight or extremely overweight sometimes don’t have a period at all — which is not very healthy. Overall, an incredibly wonky or nonexistent period is a sign of possible health issues.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. Well, I’ve gradually gained maybe 7-10 pounds over the last year, but I don’t consider that a “major” change in my weight — my weight has generally fluctuated by the same 5-10 lbs for years.
6. Exercising Excessively: Have you been hitting Soul Cycle every day after work? Training for a marathon? If you’ve taken up a new and intense exercise routine, your period might be thrown off. In fact, people who engage in extreme physical activity sometimes see their periods delayed.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. Um, I’ve been to yoga, like, four times in the last four months. I took my first Soul Cycle class ever last night and it was awesome but rough. The most exercise I generally get is from manically cleaning my apartment or walking my dog. Fitness fiend, I am not.
7. Miscalculation: The average menstrual cycle is 28 days, but many, many women have shorter or longer cycles and don’t chart them correctly — so it may be that your period is not actually late. Additionally, the majority of women have cycles that are irregular and don’t necessarily realize it. If your period is early even by a few days one month, it may arrive late the following month.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Major. As I obsessively looked back through my calendar and tried to remember when I had my last few periods, I realized that the first day of each period was either a Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday. I had always thought of myself as having a regular ol’ 28 cycle. but clearly I don’t; clearly my cycle is slightly irregular and so what I consider “late” may not actually be late.
These are a few of the more basic, every day reasons that an otherwise healthy woman, who is not pregnant, might have a late period. There are of course other, more serious reasons — a thyroid condition, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, or an eating disorder for example. If you’ve taken a negative pregnancy test and your period is more than a couple weeks late, you should see your gynecologist just to make sure everything is a-okay.
As for me? I took a pregnancy test on Saturday morning, the most nerve-racking experience ever because I had to drink, like, a gallon of water before I felt like I had to pee enough. After three minutes, I got my answer — Not Pregnant. No baby Fracois or Amelie for me. A tiny, tiny part of me felt a little sad — I’m planning on having a baby in the next three years — but I mostly felt relieved, because I am really committed to having a child on my own terms, at the right time.
Oh, and sure enough, Sunday morning, I got my period.

Guys!! Make Her Come Back For More – 15 S£x Tips For Men From The Bedrooms Of Real Women [Must Read]

If you want to know what real women think and dream about in bedroom,we got the whole scoop for you here

Just because it’s getting chilly outside doesn’t mean that your sex life can’t stay smokin’ hot. After a hectic summer filled with beach days, long nights and way too many weddings, autumn is actually the perfect to devote a little one-on-one time to your partner, particularly between the sheets. So read on to find out what real women love, from frisky foreplay ideas to the surest way to an earthquaking orgasm.
Get In The (Erogenous) Zone
“Never underestimate the power of a few well-placed kisses. It drives me crazy when my boyfriend starts kissing the nape of my neck and gently nibbling on my ear lobe – I get tingles all the way down to clitoris. After a few minutes I’m literally begging him to just put it in.”
—Tess, 27
Talk Dirty
“You don’t have to save all the naughty stuff for the bedroom. If you’re out at a fancy dinner, tell your girl how badly you want her across the table. If you’re at a bar, put your hand on her ass and tell her the things you’ll do to her when you get home. Telling women how desirable they are will give them the confidence to act out all your dirty fantasies later.”
—Marianna, 31
Be A Boob Man
“It drives me insane when my boyfriend takes the time to pay attention to my boobs. I don’t just mean grabbing, I mean kissing and licking until my nipples are hard and then giving them little bites. By that time I’m usually so wet that just a little fingering will make me cum—and the times he’s bitten down while his hand is down there I’ve had the most mind-blowing orgasms ever.”
—Laine, 27
Touch Yourself
“I know it may sound strange, but watching my boyfriend get himself off is such a turn on. I’ll start by laying down naked next him, my body against his, and play with his member until he gets hard. Then I put his hand down there and just rub my body against him and watch. I think it makes me so hot ’cause it’s kind of taboo, something he would do in private, but I also like actually seeing how much I turn him on.”
—Leslie, 25
Let Her Take Charge
When my fiancé and I are doing it missionary I usually feel as if I’m on the brink of coming and it makes me go totally wild. I’ll push him back so I can get on top, place my arms on his to hold them down, and just ride him hard until I cum—and keeping eye contact the whole time makes it extra intense. So my note to guys is, there’s nothing wrong with lying back and just enjoying the view.”
—Brooke, 24
Get Wet
“Everyone talks about shower sex, but on nights when it’s cold out or on a lazy Sunday draw a bath and get in together. Since you’re both in the water you don’t have to worry about the water flying in your face or one you getting cold. Adding bubbles is a nice tough, too. Since some of your bodies are hidden it helps with loosening inhibitions.”
—Julie, 29
Women Like Porn, Too
“It doesn’t happen often, but every now and then when my husband and I are feeling especially frisky we’ll put some porn on. We’ll take turn getting on our knees and going down on each other while the other sits on the couch and the finish by going at it doggy style.”
—Nikola, 30
Doggy Style 2.0
“My favorite sex position is when I lie down on the bed and a guy takes me from behind. Keeping a steady rhythm and grabbing my ass real tight will usually end with us coming at the same time and pretty quickly—it’s that good.”
—Frieda, 23
Find The Spot
“If a guy is going down on me I love when they take time to kind of ‘explore’ what’s going down there instead of just incessantly rubbing or poking. Gently licking my clit and then slowly rubbing it until I orgasm is just so intense, and it makes me feel like my partner cares about making me get off.”
—Chloe, 26
Dirty Spooning
“I love waking up after a good night’s rest with my boyfriend spooning—and being able to feel how hard he is. Instead of just acting like neither of us notices, I love when he gently grabs my thigh and starts touching me down there. When he puts it in, the nice, tight fit from that angle makes it feel incredible for both us.”
—Yana, 25
Set Her Fantasies in Motion
“There have been a few times during sex where I’ve admitted to my boyfriend that I want him to tie my hands up one night and just take me. I’m a little too shy to actually instigate it, though, like to actually buy handcuffs or rope ahead of time. Then one night as we were about to get it on my boyfriend reached in the bedside table and told me he had a surprise for me—and brought out two silk scarves to tie my hands with. The fact that he got my fantasy ready-to-go was as amazing as the experience actually felt.”
-Katie, 28
Don’t Get Comfortable
“Some of the hottest sex my husband and I have is right when we get home from work. There’s something incredibly hot about him propping me up on his lap on the couch while we’re both still in our work clothes. So I’d tell guys not to bother with the undressing. Just pull your girl’s stockings down, unzip your pants and do it. Getting dirty while you’re still in that office—mind frame and outfit kind of makes you feel like in your own porn movie.”
—Paulina, 32
Open The Toy Chest
“I love a man who isn’t intimidated by sex toys. If you know your girl has some, ask her to bring them out and let you be the one to pleasure her with them. For me, since I usually use my vibrator alone and on myself, it feels like I’m letting a guy in on naughty little secret when I let him be the one to tease me with it. And of course, nothing actually feels better than the last minute of substituting the toy for the real thing.”
—Adri, 24
69 Redux
“I feel like the 69 position gets called out a lot for be ‘outdated,’ (and it definitely isn’t!), but why not switch it up a bit? I love when a guy straddles me so that his member is right against my mouth and I can give him a blowjob from that angle or stick out my tongue and have him tap his stuff against it…it really is a turn on for both us.”
—Jenna, 29
Brave The Elements
“Everyone talks about taking sex al fresco in the summer, but it’s actually so hot and sticky then and do you want to spend half the time batting away mosquitos? I much prefer going on an autumn hike, working up a little sweat, and then having a quickie out in the elements. The feel of cold air against your skin is honestly exhilarating—and even more spontaneous than just getting it on at the beach after dark.”

 

Ladies!!! 7 Tips To Be The Best He’s Ever Had [Must Read]

We all strive to be the best at most things in life and being mind-blowingly awesome in bed is no different
Let’s admit it, every woman wants to give her man the most memorable time of his life. Because like men, women need some praise too to feel good. Here are some tips that will make you the best he’s ever had or ever will (in bed).

1. Outside the room
Being the best isn’t only about what you do in bed, but also what you do out of bed. For a steamy night, start by spicing things up outside the bedroom. When he’s at work, text him a naughty message that will drop a hint about what he should expect when he gets home or go out for a romantic dinner. If he’s had a long day, treat him to a sensual massage. The little sexy things you do outside the bedroom count in a big way.
2. Don’t be afraid to experiment
Being experimental and adventurous in bed is a trait most men look for in their women. You don’t have to force yourself to bring out the whips and costumes if you’re not into that kind of stuff but don’t say no to everything without even trying it. You could start with subtle stuff like blindfolds and massage oils. He will appreciate the effort and will have a hard time forgetting the sexy night.
3. Get wet, go!
When we talk about sex, wetter is better. Don’t be afraid to use lubricant to make things better in the bedroom. Lubricants enhance sensation and make things under the sheet more pleasurable. You could use some lube while giving him a hand job too. Trust us, he will love you for this.
4. Get down and dirty
It’s no secret that guys love it when their women go down on them. A lot of women frown upon the idea of a blowjob. But if you want to be the best, you got to get down and dirty, girls. Try not to be mechanical about it and enjoy yourself when you go down on him. He will treasure you all his life.
5. Eye contact
Make sure you make eye contact with your man next time you’re in bed with him. There’s something very intimate and sensual about making eye contact especially when you’re so close to someone. Don’t stare him out as that can be plain creepy. But soft glances here and there are cute. Also, looking him in the eye confirms that you’re confident about yourself, which can be a huge turn on.
6. Initiate
It’s a huge turn on for a man, if a woman makes the first move. It makes him feel desired and loved and who could say no to that? If you want to be the ultimate sex goddess in bed, don’t wait for him to make the first move. Take matters in your own hands and give him the time of his life.
7. Dirty talk
The thing about talking dirty is that it can either be very sexy or a turn off. You have to do this tactfully to not sound crass. You could read erotic novels to get the drift or practise by talking dirty to yourself during your alone time. If it sounds stupid to you, then keep practising till you feel good about it before using it on him. Dirty talking is a rare quality in women, so he is sure to cherish it.

Guys!!! 9 S£x Positions That Must Take Her To Climax – All Time! [Must Read]

Bottom line: while you think you might be pleasing her, more often than not, you’re missing the mark. “Women know that most guys want them to reach O-land, and they don’t want to disappoint,” says Dorian Solot, a sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. “So all too often, women fake orgasms, or just let their partner assume they had one.” If you want to guarantee the real deal, stick to these nine positions that will work every time.
1. Missionary
According to sex experts, women get the most pleasure out of basic missionary sex. “Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good old-fashioned missionary position was the overall favorite. There’s nothing fancy about it, but women said they loved the closeness and the intimacy of having their partner’s weight on them,” says Solot. But in order for position to be most effective, Los Angeles-based sex expert and radio host Lora Somoza says to make sure you’re entering her at the correct angle. “By going in diagonally—rather than straight in and out—there’s more friction for clitorial stimulation, which is best, since that’s how most women achieve orgasm.”

2. Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, the man is either lying down or in a sitting position, and the female straddles him backwards — facing his feet instead of his face. It’s a key position that also allows easy access to the clitoris, says sexologist and sexuality educator Megan Andelloux. “Because of the easier clitoral access, this position is the one that is most likely to facilitate an orgasm because direct clitoral stimulation is easy to engage in.”

3. Doggie Style
Doggie style is a great position for the woman because it allows her to have optimal control. “She is able to adjust her range of motion for an angle that feels best,” says Amy Levine, a sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. “He can likely stimulate her G-spot and have access to her clitoris with his hand, her hand or a toy, like a small bullet-shaped vibrator.” Sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. also stresses the importance of clitoral stimulation while in the doggie style position. “She will rarely have an orgasm if you’re not doing something manually in front at the same time,” she says.
4. Girl on Top
Another position that allows her to have the most control of her orgasm is when she’s the one on top, facing forward. But Somoza explains that it still needs to be a joint effort. “You can help her by moving her hips up and down. It’s a communication thing,” she says. Levine adds that when the woman is on top, “she’s in control of the depth and motion, as well as having easy access to her clitoris for pleasure.”

5. Spooning
If your lady doesn’t prefer deep penetration, Andelloux suggests spooning. It’s also good “if you’re into lazy morning Sunday sex playtime. It concentrates on stimulation of the front portion of the vagina or rectum, which is where the most nerves are located in the genitals.” Andelloux explains that spooning is pleasurable because it creates a tighter fit in the vagina and rectum, so if a woman is looking for more stimulation from her partner’s fingers or penis… spoon away.

6. Crisscross
According to Marshall Miller, a sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, this is another great position for clitoral stimulation. “Both partners are lying down. The woman is on her back and the guy is on his side. She has her legs draped over his middle like a giant X,” he says. “Since your bodies aren’t squished against each other, either you or she can reach down to rub her clitoris, what most women need to reach the Big O.”
7. The Pillow Technique
Many sex experts agree that positions often become more pleasurable for a woman when a pillow or blanket is added to create a new angle of entry. In missionary, Levine says to “put a pillow under her tush to give a pelvic lift. That can also help the man rub her g-spot with his penis.” Dr. Brame says it’s a tip that is often underutilized, and that you can even use furniture or yoga props. “Certain angles for some women won’t be comfortable,” he says. “Ask her what is working for her.”

8. Coital Alignment Technique
This position, created by psychotherapist Edward Eichel, is considered by many to be the “greatest sex position in the world.” Start in a normal missionary position with your full body weight on top of the woman, not resting on your elbows. Move forward so that the base of your penis (your pubic bone) is making direct contact with her clitoris. Her legs should be around your thighs and you should be moving together in a rhythmic, rocking motion. “Some swear that this position allows for the closest physical connection and the best clitoral stimulation based on his positioning,” says Levine.

9. Ankles Up
“When you’re on top of somebody or flat, you can’t always achieve full penetration,” says Dr. Brame—which is why adjusting her leg positioning allows for deeper contact. “You have to put her ankles up over your shoulders. It allows you to go as deep inside of her as possible and hit her G-spot.” The same deepness can also be achieved by her bending her knees or placing the soles of her feet on your chest.